Yeah, i know that wired but it will be helpful. Let me explain. In few months I want to modify control of lights or other devices in my house, i want to do that with relays and normal wall switches, but there is a problem, when i turn on light with domoticz on dashboard i can see icon that light is ON, but when i turn off switch on wall there is still info "on" i want to use some kind of detection of current/voltage to know if the light are relay ON for detection ill try to use this:

with additional transoptor to separate high voltage from avr and detect when light is ON, then i want to 'overwrite' status on domoticz without sending signal of change of status to relay(s).
Diagram will looks like this:
So there is a question, its possible to overwrite device status without changing it?
Sorry for my language. its difficult to me to explain that in other language than my native.